I’ve always been concerned with Transsexual providers that do not screen or verify their potential lovers. About 90% of the genetic female providers I know, verify their clients identity while 90% of the Transsexual providers do not.
Personally, I screen 90% of my clients. Whether through a legal name verification, a provider reference, screening service verified members, verifying name through a business website, verification means discretion for you and I. Of course, there’s always that caller that just mesmerizes me with charm and, I forgo verifying his identity. But for the most part, I require the ability to verify someone’s identity before agreeing on a get together. Why?
There are several reasons for this. First, I owe it to myself to be safe and discreet. I owe it to my lovers to keep them safe and discreet. If I accept an anonymous date from a random caller, everybody including my client is at risk.
For example, I receive a call from a random, anonymous caller. He has money so I agree to see him. He ends up being a (proverbially) shitty date. I ask him to leave and he threatens me. Now, here I sit in a hotel room 1800 miles away from home. This random anonymous jerk now knows the hotel and room number I am staying. 2 hours pass (the scenario’s listed below are just a sampling of what can go wrong in this scenario)…
When the disgruntled client left, he told hotel management there’s a whore in the hotel room that just ripped him off…Cops come, you are with a verified client that is put in the middle of this. Now get escorted out of your hotel, in a big city and everything else is booked. You are fucked. The verified client is freaked and humiliated and, will never see you again. Yes, this happened to me during my 2nd month in the “business.”
Or, said disgruntled client decides he want to really fuck with the provider. He lingers around the hotel floor, waits until another client shows up at the door. Approaches the client and says or does (insert the nightmare of your choice)..everyone involved is fucked.
I think you get the drift.
Also, screening allows a provider the opportunity to chat with a potential client, find something interesting or attractive in him (whether physical or mental). This will allow the provider the ability to keep an erection. I know you fella’s believe we are all machines, however there has to be at least a hint of an attraction to the potential lover. You see, we are not like genetic females. We cannot lay on our backs with our legs spread faking orgasm after orgasm. We actually have to get, AND maintain an erection. Please give us something to grab onto in the way of attraction whether it be physical or mental, give us something please.
For those that wish to remain anonymous. You may want to consider the fact that the very same provider is seeing just anyone off the street and not screening or verifying a single soul. How anonymous are you now…? Hmmmm? If you are willing to take that risk then by all means, continue to see girls that see every swinging dick on the planet in hopes she gets through the day without any drama or worse.
If I don’t feel comfortable putting my safety and the safety of my clients in jeopardy.
July 1, 2008 at 11:32 pm
You are a wise and experienced lady, and it shows. Your advise applies to genetic females too. Remember to be our best, we 3hole girls have to do more than lie on our backs. A fake orgasm is just a fake orgasm. I know what you mean, I do like something to grab onto (physically and mentally).
January 25, 2009 at 5:26 am
It is good that you have explained the provider’s point of view. Hopefully it will enlighten others. As someone looking at it from the other side, I have often thought as to how I would handle various scenarios that could unfold while with a lover.
What I would admonish potential “hobbyists” is first, that they follow the provider’s lead. This is someone who has likely seen a lot (and I don’t mean just dicks (pun both intended and not))and, if they are smart, will handle things for the mutual benefit of both.
Second, don’t look to get over, do screening of your own and strive to find the correct person for you. Whether it is looks, personality or the roses that by any other name would still smell as sweet, it is better to find the person that fits rather than try to fit a square penis in a wrong hole. Hey, I’ve been able to find some Jewels
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Third, be yourself but not simply about self. Strangely, after getting into the hobby, it really hit home in a way it had not before that relationships are well, relationships. They can be fleeting, they can be long; they can be negatively rooted or, preferably, positively so. It seems they are part of the human condition and cannot be completely avoided.
Finally, keep it real! This may seem like a no brainer but from the blog entry above and what I’ve heard, maybe not. Your lover provides fulfillment, contentment and fantasy. Think of it like a movie. You see, you enjoy, you cum and then you go! Until the next time you buy your ticket.
I hope these jewels of wisdom are helpful to others.
February 23, 2009 at 2:06 am
you are an amazing woman. do you ever visit the San Francisco area?
February 23, 2009 at 2:12 am
Thank you for the compliment Jim. I do visit San Francisco every 6-12 weeks. Probably visit again towards the middle or end of March. kisses
April 15, 2009 at 11:54 am
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July 25, 2009 at 3:51 pm
WILL YOU COME TO DALLAS/FT. WORTH AREA ANYTIME SOON?