Threesome’s with a gentleman and a Transgirl…

Recently one of my favorite lovers asked me if I would be into a threesome with he and another transgirl. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve had some very hot doubles sessions, especially with TS Rachel and some of our favorite mutual clients. That girl has dick and her nipples taste so, oh never mind. I didn’t get very far. 

Where was I? I have done many 2 tranny, one cocksucker sessions. The problem for me is, I simply do not like to share. Rarely do I meet a man that can actually keep up with my sexual appetite, let alone have to share his cock and his orifices with another whore. I need my lover and his mouth occupied with me at all times. I need his flesh, his breath, his sweat and his cock occupying every moment with me.

I can’t think of anything hotter than a man’s body pressed against my body. I know guys, what’s hotter would probably be you pressed between 2 beautiful, silky smooth tgirls. Anyway…

I need to grab his hair at my desire, to have my hair pulled and to wrap my legs around him to pull him closer. I can’t focus while he is sucking off or fucking some other whore. Hell, he won’t be able to even scratch the needs of my pleasure and sexual passion. I need to nibble on his flesh, swallow his cock. Take one another passionately. I need to get the full experience of him. To cherish and be cherished for a session so hot that if it were the last session of the evening, I want to retire with the taste and scent of him all over me.

XOXOX – Jas

 

Internal Salt Water Bathing – Superior to the Colonic or Enema Method

Google “Internal Salt Water Bathing’ for more information. I am not a doctor. This is what I find to be the safest way to cleanse. This particular procedure was taken from the Master Cleanser (the lemonade diet) book for which i neither endorse nor promote. Just an easy cut and paste.

Internal salt water bathing cleanses are a much superior method of cleansing the colonic tract without the harmful effects of customary colonics and enemas. This method will cleanse the entire digestive tract while the colonics and enemas will only reach the colon or a small part of it. Much cheaper than a colonic as well.

Directions:
Prepare a full quart (32 ounces) of luke-warm water and add two level teaspoons of uniodized sea salt. Do not use ordinary iodized salt as it will not work properly. Drink the entire quart of salt and water first thing in the morning. This MUST be taken on an empty stomach. The salt and water will not separate but will stay intact and quickly and thoroughly wash the entire tract in about one hour. Several eliminations will likely occur.

The salt water has the same specific gravity as the blood, hence the kidneys cannot pick up the water and the blood cannot pick up the salt. This may be taken as often as needed for proper washing of the entire digestive system.

If the salt water does not work tie first time, try adding a little more or a little less salt until the proper balance is found; or possibly take estra water with or without salt (usually more water will work). This often increases the activity. Remember, it can do no harm at any time. The colon needs a good washing, but do it the natural salt water way.

It is also advisable to take a herb laxative tea or supplement at night to loosen, then the salt water each morning to wash it out.

To Great Sex

- Jasmine

 

Provider / Client Expectations – Ya want cum, go to the bathhouse

Admittedly, reading over a recent thread  on a review/hobbyist discussion board titled; “TS Penis Size” has probably been the most amusing thread I have seen on TER to date. It amazes me that cock size and quantity of cum actually are driving forces in selecting a TS provider. Lets get my deal out in the open so there’s no question. Sometime I cum a little, sometime I cum a little more…sometimes i just leak. I go for the 5-30 minute tantric orgasm personally. Sometimes my 7+ inch cock gets harder and thicker than other times.

That being said, from a client perspective I completely understand the concept of  getting “the most bang for your buck” (no pun intended).

So here’s a traveling girl with decent reviews and she’s going to see what, 3-5 guys each day? Lets do the math. How many times is she going to deliver that rock stiff dick with the big finish? Will she deliver her load in the morning or in the evening (anticipates the client)?

I believe it is the providers responsibility to understand her capabilities from an hour to hour basis and more importantly, anticipate her potential clients expectations. This can be tricky due to possible LE calls and such but its up to the provider to determine what information to share. There are tactful ways to be subtle. I mean, its our choice to be providers, we have to minimize the LE risks and all the other safety issues with meeting a new client. But the bottom line is If I cant have fun and get off, I certainly wont be able to please my client. For example;

Although I often TOP,  i consider myself to be a a truly versatile provider and I do greatly enjoy being on the passive side of the coin from time to time (few men can successfully take the TOP position from me). Contrary to popular belief, I am not a 100% TOP although I do end up toping many of my clients. My hottest sessions are when a verified clients calls and says something like “Im pretty open, just want to have a great time.” This is a date I would probably accept. Conversely, if a guy calls and says; “I want to be TOP’d and swallow cum,” this is a date that I would probably turn down. Several reasons, I am putting myself at greater risk for LE entrapment by entering into this dialogue and, how often does this guy randomly swallow cum? or, I may not be all that into your potentially non clean ass.

For me, I have to be into my lover and into “the moment.” Also, in my controlling, dominant personality, I prefer to determine at what pace the session goes, while we are together. I have an innate ability to know where to go with a potential lover, most of the time (I do miss the mark 3-5% of the time). And, contrary to popular belief, I am not a 100% TOP but a true versatile lover so, sometimes I get turned on when my lover takes control. The point is, I am quite capable of penetrating you however, the chemistry may not take me there. Or, I am so turned on by my lovers masculinity, I just want to be rode hard. Also, since I love DFK, I’m not too into guys that go around swallowing providers loads all day long. I like a straight man that understands the difference between his sexuality (and is comfortable with it) and his sexual identity. I have a responsibility to keep you and me safe from all the obvious concerns.

Scripting sessions has always been boring for me. What turns me on the most is a versatile guy that has little pre-determined expectations and just wants to connect and have a great time. When the natural chemistry of a man and a woman guide the session, they always end up being very hot. I get just as much satisfaction out of pleasing my lover as I hope he gets in pleasing me.

If a guy desires to be more specific in his expectations, I believe its a very sensitive area due to legalities of key words LE uses for entrapment and so forth so, its a delicate subject. I also believe it is the providers responsibility to be creative and loosely identify her lovers desires and then, determine and be honest if she is up for the task.

And don’t you forget, for all you power bottoms (guys who’s primary objective is not do much more than lay there and get fucked), and cum queens (guys that primary objective is to swallow a load)….gay sex (man to man) is free. Gay men aren’t on hormones nor do they have hormonal imbalances and they cum, well….just like you, just like a man cums. And gay sex is free unless you are a total douche-bag. Ya want loads of cum? get over your need for validation with a T-girl and hit a bathhouse.

XOXOX
- Jas

Jas Blog – Memoirs of a T Whore
http://pussywillowts.wordpress.com/category/memoirs-of-a-t-whore/

 

Consensual Sex Work Practices Reproductive Health

Not all prostitutes want to be rescued. Consensual and successful sex workers do exist. I was the spokesperson for Sex Worker Outreach Project-Chicago (SWOP) at a Chicago presentation in June, sponsored by the Open University of the Left and the Chicago Socialist Party recently discussing the issues of Sex workers, criminalization and Human Rights.

Martha Rosenberg, journalist for CountePunch, staff cartoonist for The Evanston RoundTable and general political writer summed up the discussion panel best in the article; LINK; Spare us the Paternalism Says Organizing Chicago Sex Workers.

It is always tricky when entering into debates about human trafficking, especially with rescue organizations and conservative women movements that are for the most part anti-prostitution. When the Washington Post article, “Human Trafficking Evokes Outrage, Little Evidence” LINK; Washington Post Article was published September of ‘07, the women’s movements with radical ideas even outside of feminism were up in arms, and without data to back up their claims.

When looking at the Trafficking Victims Protection Act (TVPA or HR 3887), one must investigate its success, its hidden agendas as well as the driving force of the movement. If you look at Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) decision to outsource Ketchum as a coalition effort to find trafficked victims, the coalition included former heads of the Funds for a Conversative Majority and the Manhattan Institute, a conservative think tank. TVPRA is driven by The Concerned Women for America, a conservative think tank group which is commonly known for their anti-prostitution agenda. View Concerned Women for America Page

The right-wing-backed human trafficking movement, part of the “anti-prostitution industrial complex,” deliberately blurs the line between sex work and sex slavery to further its moralistic agenda and line its pockets. On their own website, CWA’s mission statement claims; “to protect and promote Biblical values among all citizens – first through prayer, then education, and finally by influencing our society – thereby reversing the decline in moral values in our nation.” This organization is Pro-Live, Anti-Homosexual Marriage, Anti Migration (Keep the borders secure!) and basically a famous fundamentalist feminist organization thats lines its own pockets with manipulating the (Bush) administration.

While the government has spent over 500 million dollars in searching for Trafficking victims since 2000, they have brought a total of 148 federal cases nationwide. A far cry from the overestimated 50,000 alleged victims. Last year alone, HHS paid $3.4 million dollars in new street outreach awards to 22 groups nationwide.

The problem is trafficking has received far more attention than crimes such as domestic violence of which there are hundreds of thousands of documented victims every year. These conservative organizations aren’t rescuing domestically abused women at all. Money given to rescue groups for them find trafficking victims, which they cannot. Or for groups like Kechum to train people to train people to train people to counsel potential victims. If you want trafficking victims to come forward, the only way is to give Amnesty for all trafficked victims. The far more common trafficking situation is women trafficked into household, farm and sweatshop work which, not sexual trafficking. Trafficking laws are being manipulated within our very own legal system to arrest sex workers and build convictions. They do not seem to be helping women who are victimized in any capacity. Unionization and/or decriminalization seem to be the answer…

 

Sex Workers, Criminalization and Human Rights Discussion Panel

A sweet girlfriend of mine and I recently represented swop-chicago.org in a panel discussion 21 year old think tank type group called Open University of the Left. www.openuniversityoftheleft.org . Kari Lyderson*, a Midwest bureau staff writer at The Washington Post joined the panel. Miss Lydersen recently wrote the following article on the potential effects of the Trafficking Victims Protection Reauthorization Act (TVPRA, also HR 3887) for sex workers as well as sex trafficked victims. Article – Satisfied Sex worker or Domestic Trafficking Victim?

I thought this would be a great opportunity to discuss issues that affect the lives and livelihood of sex workers – in particular the current controversy surrounding trafficking victim legislation – and the moralistic and dangerous crusade against prostitution. Here is the recently observed Washington Post article on TVPRA; Article – Human Trafficking Evokes Outrage, Little Evidence.

As the pressure to criminalize sex work increases, acts of violence against sex workers are on the rise. Without the protection or recourse from violent acts committed against us, society tolerates violence against sex workers because of the stigma and myths that surround prostitution. Sex workers and their allies seek to stop the violence and correct these falsehoods, change the context for current legislation, and to legitimize sex work.

We at SWOP-Chicago, Sex Workers Outreach Project Chicago, a grassroots organization, seek to improve the lives of current and former sex workers in the Chicago area. SWOP-Chicago produces the CAN-TV program Red Light District Chicago.

We discussed decriminalization and countries which have various levels of success including the Netherlands, Austrailia, the UK and various states and counties in the US. We discussed Unionizing sex workers as an alternate or next steps from decriminalization as well as the moralistic myths of sex work. We talked about the right to reproductive health for both prostitutes and the customers who see them. We talked about the classism and elitism of various regulation systems the corruption by law enforcement effects the success of programs designed around harm reduction. We also exposed anti prostitution groups and their conservative agendas and how many conservative womens anti-prostitution groups are serving their own agenda with using TVPRA as a front to discriminate against prostitutes, specifically girls who work on the streets.

I will be discussing these issues in detail through this medium over the next few days. Thanks for listening to my babble

XOXOX
- Jasmine

* Kari Lydersen is a Midwest bureau staff writer at The Washington Post and writes for publications including The Chicago Reader, In These Times and the Progressive. She is the author of “Out of the Sea and Into the Fire: Latin American-US Immigration in the Global Age” (Common Courage, 2005) and co-author of the forthcoming book “Shoot an Iraqi: Life, Art and Resistance Under the Gun” (City Lights, Sept. 2008). She is a youth journalism instructor with We the People Media.

 

Prostitute’s murderer is sentenced to less than 2 years – Ontario Canada

Someone sent me this link…unbelievable

Man Kills Prostitute, Gets Less Than 2 Years. What the FUCK?
May 16, 2008 · 45 Comments

by Isabel

The day after admitting he killed a woman and dumped her body on a rural road, a St. Catharines, Ont., man was released from jail.

Judge Stephen Glithero sentenced Wayne Ryczak, 55, to one day in jail on Thursday for the death of 29-year-old Stephine Beck.

The one-day sentence is in addition to time Ryczak already served since his March 5, 2007, arrest — time the judge said was equivalent to 30 months.

“Devastated, we’re devastated,” Beck’s mother, Alice Dort, said from her home in Nova Scotia shortly after a police detective broke the news by phone. “This is just so unbelievable.” “There’s no justice. None whatsoever. I’m just so disgusted.”

The Crown asked for seven to 10 years in jail.

Ryczak’s lawyer requested two years less a day to be served in the community.

After deliberating for 20 minutes, Glithero said a 30-month sentence in the penitentiary would be appropriate and Ryczak had already served it. Ryczak was also given three years’ probation.

 

How Does One Go about Legitimizing Sex Work?

I think when one speaks of legalizing consensual sex work, it generally falls on deaf ears. Same with the term “de-criminalization” which screams government regulations. No thanks!

I believe the primary objection to present to society is to identify needed harm reduction as it relates to human rights and labor related human trafficking. It must also address the difference between sex trafficking V.S. consensual sex work. We must expose how the current laws confuse both issues, frequently turning trafficking victims into criminals. Most people are quite empathetic to trafficking victims. Its unfortunate however, the confusion and manipulation of trafficking laws and how they are sometimes used by law enforcement to entrap consensual sex workers. I believe the movement to decriminalize consensual work start at defining the difference between trafficking laws and consensual sex work.

Sex trafficking and human trafficking is nothing less than the raw exploitation of human
beings, compelling human beings to provide labor or to engage in commercial sex against their will, by means of force, fraud or coercion.

Shortly after the Spitzer scandal, many law enforcement stings and such were in the media including a sting in Philadelphia. The Chief of police was interviewed about the success of the sting and why they set it up to entrap escorts at nearby hotels. The short answer was something like; “These prostitutes come over state lines to provide sexual services which in many cases, fund their drug habits.” Oh yea, all whores are where abused as children and are now drug users is an easy assumption for society to follow. Nobody questioned the police officers answer? But what about the human rights of these consensual sex workers?

Another recent story; “Good News: Feds Bust Human-Trafficking Ring;
Federal authorities, with the help of local law enforcement agencies, made multiple arrests Wednesday in Kentucky, Indiana and Ohio in connection with an international prostitution and human-trafficking ring. Police raided 19 massage parlors.” Dare I ask, when the fuck did a girl consensually working in a massage parlor giving “happy endings” become part of a human-trafficking ring? Were any of the girls unwillingly working at these brothels?

DePaul University’s College of Law and the Illinois Criminal Justice Information Authority recently conducted a study of the relationships between 100 young prostitutes and their pimps. To summarize their analysis, A common scenario for sex trafficked victims is the boyfriend/pimp threatens her with rape or forced prostitution. Or worse, forces her to serve multiple “tricks” each day in a multitude of locations, while keeping most of the money for himself. This is a gray area as to whether or not this is a trafficking case with the current trafficking laws.

Many women’s groups support The Trafficking Victims Protection Reauthorization Act (TVPRA, also HR 3887), which redefines trafficking to include many domestic prostitutes. Legislation currently focuses on force, fraud or coercion. Aggravated trafficking could expand the definition and if a similar bill is passed in the Senate and becomes law, it will mean that consensual sex workers could be treated as crime victims deserving of resources and institutional support, rather than as criminals. And their pimps and traffickers would face increased criminal penalties.

Expanding the trafficking definition would bring more attention to the extent of commercial sexual exploitation in the U.S. and contradict the perception that the Department of Justice moving forward in a positive direction in its fight against sex trafficking.

The current laws are inadequate to prosecute victims of sex abuse and exploitation, however various sex workers rights groups are concerned the revised bill would increase criminalization of consensual sex work. The biggest concern of course is federal law identifying every act of prostitution or persuading someone into prostitution now constitutes this crime that can be prosecuted as sex trafficking.” The concern is of course using trafficking laws to charge non victimized sex workers.

The initiative should be to protect women, lower and/or eliminate HIV/STD cases and provide education, housing and safety to all. Society needs to train and be trained in these areas so everyone can improve their lives. The court system has not proven to be a positive variable in positive change. Law enforcement isn’t necessarily the key to end domestic trafficking.

In Solidarity,

Jasmine

 

Who is SWOP-Chicago?

We are the Chicago Chapter of the nation-wide Sex Worker’s Outreach Project-USA.

Sex Workers Outreach Project Chicago [SWOP-Chicago] is a grassroots organization dedicated to improving the lives of current and former sex workers in the Chicago area, on and off of the job.

SWOP, at its most basic, is an anti-violence campaign. As a multi-state network of sex workers and advocates, we address locally and nationally the violence that sex workers experience because of their criminal status. Operating in one of the most prominently violent societies today, sex workers in America experience this phenomenon pointedly in the context of their criminal status. Yet, sex workers are seldom afforded protection or recourse from violent acts committed against them because of the precarious, often graft-ridden relationship between sex work and law enforcement. Society tolerates violence against sex workers because of the stigma and myths that surround prostitution. Only until these falsehoods are corrected and sex workers are legitimized will we be able to effectively prevent and minimize the structural and occupational challenges of sex work. We are here for the Whore Revolution!

Check out our national network at www.swop-usa.org

 

Cold Hard Reality of being a Whore

Every 2-3 months I do this speech in front of a class of 4th year medical students for a Dr. friend’s medical training practice. Very little is taught to medical students about the care of Transgender people so, I get to “babble” about it.

Last week’s group of young doctors asked the usual questions about one’s transition, and the discussion was typical except for one individual. She asked. “why do so many Transwomen become prostitutes?

Normally I wouldn’t have gone there but asked the other students if they had interest in the same topic and, up went 7 out of 10 students hands.  I suggested they speak with women in the sex trade (since my perspective is that of (real) sex worker activists) but they insisted on hearing mine.

I started asking questions to the group, mostly because I wanted to see where there perspective stood. I wasn’t surprised to find this class of med students represented the view of middle America; they came from privileged (mostly suburban) homes with (admittedly) little or no tolerance for grey areas in a subject as inflammatory as sex work. Their inquisition was consistent and predictable. Their assumptions, all whores being the old Victorian trope of the abused, addicted, dysfunctional and fallen prostitutes, incapable of forming their own opinions or making their own decisions. They wanted stories of Dickensian sex workers.

How could I resist a chance to offer my own experience, which runs opposite to their assumptions? I was hoping the conversation might make an impact on the opinions these people have about sex work in general.

The overall assumptions and opinions of the group were that a woman’s value as a human being decreases as she gains sexual experience. One girl asked me if I cared about preserving the ’sanctity’ of my body, insinuating sex without marriage or commitment is loveless sex which is inherently degrading. My responses at best gave the group a mix of restraint, confusion, and extreme discomfort. I enjoy giving discomfort where discomfort were due however, this group and I just didn’t see eye to eye. I mean fuck, it’s just sex.

 As I began to share my opinion (as a person who is pro (consensual) sex work), one of the med students raised her hand and asked; “What makes you an authority on sex work and sex workers attitudes and direction? Before I could answer her, one of the male med students chimes in “she knows, trust me,” and he winks at me. Now I know this is naive of me to think, but for a minute I thought, “how does he know? What tipped him off exactly? I mean, I was using my legal name, I had on no makeup, my hair tied back with a scarf and wearing vintage resale shop clothing… He then said;  ”I know nothing about you personally, however I’ve seen your ad.”

I wasn’t sure how I felt about this group of students knowing I am a whore. I was a little stunned, but I’m not ashamed of what I do although I did feel a bit exposed. I suppose I should have felt mortified, but I didn’t. I did feel like a private part of my life had been exposed. As the group started exchanging little notes (google TS Miss Jasmine or Miss Jasmine TS), I’m sure they went back to their little apartments to surf the internet to identify every trace of my whorish self.

At this point in the discussion, I feel hopelessly restrained as I knew there was little I could say to begin to penetrate the many layers of misunderstandings and preconceptions the family of these youths instilled in them. Then, one of the students asked; “Will you give us a snapshot of a typical day in your life like, what did you do yesterday?”

So I told them. I grabbed Thai food for lunch with a couple of Chicago’s finest sex workers (code names Libertine and Infinite). Afterwards, walking through Bucktown with Nicole, a hot gg provider friend of mine. I explained how awesome it was to be in the company of such strong pro-whores. As we window shopped, I received a call from one of my favorite lovers. We have spent several sessions together, he on the bottom and me on the top. This call was to remind me that tonight, I would not be on top (FINALLY!). He explained to me in detail what we would be doing and this made me smile. One girl asked; “What went through your mind at the beginning and at the end of your session with him?”

I explained as we undressed one another, my thought was “This is gonna be great!” Then as I guided him to his knees before me I thought; “I can’t remember the last time I was the passive one.” After he sucked my cock, we switched positions. We kissed, we mashed, we tossed one another’s salad as we sexually wrestled for top position, he wouldn’t budge and insisted he would “have me.” He bent me over my love seat and fucked me into the next room. We almost made it to the bed, but instead I found myself being gently forced to my hands and knees. Banging me hard, holding my hair in his hands for leverage. Then he flipped me to my back, legs over his shoulders, his hands stroking my dick. He pulls out of me and with one hand and grabs the back of my neck. He removes his condom with the other hand as he cums across my tummy and it squirts all the way onto one of my tits and even a little bit shoots on my neck. Looking at his splattered cum against my soft Ivory skin, I thought; “What a beautiful shot!”

There were no further questions.

OXOXO

- Jas

 

The Death of Deborah Jeane Palfrey…

This original post from boundnotgagged.com

http://deepthroated.wordpress.com/2008/05/11/sex-workers-tribute-video/  

Hey lovers,
Deborah Jeane Palfrey.  I can’t stop thinking about her. Her death cut me deeper than I ever could have imagined.
Her death has been heavy on the hearts of many a sex worker, indicative as it is of this juggernaut of a system that could grind us into nothing if we get caught up.  For me, I think her death translates into real fear.  A fear that is about fighting the good fight, and still going down.  If we manage to survive and thrive in a crazy industry; if we live ethically as sex workers and use all our faculties to operate our businesses and maintain what we believe is right, we still might end up dead.  Ms. Palfrey was a resourceful woman.  A woman connected, perhaps dangerously, to big players in the government.  And she got royally fucked. Someone, somewhere said, we’re going to bring her down.  We’re going to make an example of this one.  And they didn’t stop until she was swinging from a rope. “Upon news of her death there was no shortage of those who suggested Jeane Palfrey had been killed by cloaked enemies in the government. They miss the point. Jeane Palfrey of course had been killed by her government. She’d been unfairly ground down and hounded to death by shameless prosecutors and disinterested robed judges in our judicial branch.”
(Bill Keisling, Yardbirds.com )
I regret deeply now that I, we, did not do something more concrete to support her in her struggle.  It is a bare and unpleasant truth that the moment a sex worker comes under legal fire, s/he becomes untouchable.  Abandoned by clients, friends, etc…how did Palfrey end up in her mother’s home?  Why wasn’t she staying with me?  Where were her friends?  Where was her support network?
This blog was begun as a response to her original arrest.  She has, inadvertently, been an enormous catalyst in the sex workers rights movement.  And now she’s dead.
What the fuck.
There will be no procession, fanfare, or jazz funeral for the DC Madame.  Ain’t no crying in the streets for her, except by us, invisibly.  But I want to hold her up in this moment.
All the friends in Barcelona right now, doing the good work at the International harm reduction assoc. conference are making me remember that we are making progress.  Lateral steps toward a more just system.  And I want to thank Deborah Jeane Palfrey for her part in that.  As a contentious figure, a frustrating spin doctor, or a hero.   Whichever.